Nowadays teenagers seem to be incapable of setting their priorities rationally. They resemble Esaú, the hunter, and Kane, the businessman, in the sense that they apparently know what their aim is. However, teenagers, unlike Esaú and Kane, are not willing to make sacrifices to achieve their goals.
In my experience, youngsters know exactly where to head for, but the slightest idea of having to work hard or making sacrifices puts them off at once. Most of them are used to getting what they want on the spot: the minute they study and behave properly, their parents reward them in the twinkling of an eye. I wonder why most teenagers don´t come to think that the reward in itself is the fact that they are getting better educated as they become grown-ups.
Now that I´m writing this, I come to the conclusion that parents and teachers should show teenagers that a means to an end is as important as the result in itself. Advise them if they are close to lose their track just because they consider the means is not worthwhile.
By Miriam Rodriguez
Chapter 4
In my experience, youngsters know exactly where to head for, but the slightest idea of having to work hard or making sacrifices puts them off at once. Most of them are used to getting what they want on the spot: the minute they study and behave properly, their parents reward them in the twinkling of an eye. I wonder why most teenagers don´t come to think that the reward in itself is the fact that they are getting better educated as they become grown-ups.
Now that I´m writing this, I come to the conclusion that parents and teachers should show teenagers that a means to an end is as important as the result in itself. Advise them if they are close to lose their track just because they consider the means is not worthwhile.
By Miriam Rodriguez
Chapter 4